Before you met the love of your life did you ever have a backup?
CJ reaches asked the question to all of you Before you met the love of your life did you ever have a backup boyfriend/girlfriend and why?
According to thoughtcatalog, some people say that having a backup boyfriend or girlfriend has it's benefits.
- Sparing you from a heartache because you have someone else to get over another person instead of doing it alone
- It is self-fulfilling because the flames of being together are always kept high.
- Your viability because sometimes you might loose it in the relationship you are in and need the other person to remind you that you are worth more.
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Is it bad to have a back up boyfriend or girlfriend?
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Here is what some of our Beat listeners said:
Hate to admit it but yes when I was younger I did always have a backup Boyfriend and I even had a sex buddy on the side. I guess cause it was really not true love. Cause now I couldn't imagine being without my hubby
No thats very bad dating 2 people at once. I think one person is enough.
That's just wrong!!lol .Hi CJ...my mom Angela and I are listening and laughing at this ..we were just talking about relationships,marriage and stuff....