Are you looking for a way to become more successful in life? Helping others might not be the first thing that comes to mind… But it’s actually an excellent way to advance yourself in the process.
“Competition can be a positive thing […] but when it comes from a place of envy or comparison, it not only harms our relationships with other women,” according to Mikki Brammer, writing for Darling Magazine. She has a point: supporting your peers “encourages others to do the same for you.” It’s the “boys club” mentality, only applied by women. Why wouldn’t it give good results? You give some, you get some!
For example, women in Barack Obamas’ Presidential office devised a clever strategy to avoid their input being dismissed by the men in the room; every time a woman would say something, another would chime in and support her! It didn’t matter who it was, it worked!
So, if a woman on your team has done an amazing job, say something in front of everyone! Not only will this boost her standing and confidence, but she’ll be more likely to do the same for you… Both of you will also benefit from being perceived as people who know how to make and spot good moves.